RAWANG : Sex lessons to help wives "serve their husbands better than a first-class prostitute" will be among the classes provided by the OBEDIENT WIVES CLUB (OWC) to help promote harmonious marriages and counter social ills. It's vice-president Dr Rohaya Mohamad said it was time sexual prowess took a front seat in marriage, beyond that of the traditional "GOOD MOTHER OR GOOD COOK" roles.
"A good or religious wife should also be good in bed," she told reporters after the launch of the club's Malaysian chapter at a golf club here yesterday.She said a husband who was kept happy in the bedroom would have no reason to stray, seek out prostitutes or indulge in other social vices. "The family institution is protected and we can curb social ills like prostitution, domestic violence, human trafficking and abondoned babies," she said , adding that she believed these problems stemmed from UNFULFILLED SEXUAL NEEDS AT HOME.
Dr Rohaya, who previously served 15 years as a doctor in the Health Ministry, said the club would also offer counselling and lecture sessions for wives, husbands or couples. She said the Malaysian chapter had around 800 members while its chapter in Jordan had 200, adding that another in Indonesia was set to be launched on June 19 in Jakarta. Asked whether wives should remain obedient if their husbands still abused or cheated on them despite being "KEPT HAPPY" in the BEDROOM, Dr Rohaya said everyone was subject to God's rule."God has His ways and is fair to all. A husband is also subject to God's rule, meaning he can go to hell, too. But a woman must be a good wife to the end," she said, adding that according to Islam, women should pray, fast during Ramadan, protect their CHASTITY and obey their husbands if they wanted to enter heaven.
Dr Rohaya said the club was undaunted by public criticism, adding that she believed this was a "successful formula" to happy marriages.OBEDIENT WIVES CLUB and the Polygamy Club were formed by Global Ikhwan Sdn Bhd an organisation founded by former members of the banned Al-Arqam Islamic group.A mass wedding reception for eight couples was also held during the launch.
FACEBOOK GROUP SET UP TO COUNTER OBEDIENT WIVES CLUB.
PETALING JAYA : Facebook users have started a group called "WE DO NOT WANT SEXIST NONSENSE FROM GLOBAL IKHWAN SDN BHD" after reading about the Obedient Wives Club (OWC) launched by the organisation. Someone called Matthew Tard Ong wrote that he created the group as he believed both partners played a role in keeping a marriage healthy. As of 9:30 pm yesterday, 133 people had joined the group. The OWC, or Kelab Taat Suami, was launched yesterday. Its members strived to delight their husbands in almost every way.
OWC vice-president Dr Rohaya Mohamad said this included keeping husbands sexually satisfied so they would not turn to prostitutes or keep mistresses. A Muslim husband, who only wanted to be known by his first name Zul, said he did not agree with the message sent out by the club. "Yes,sex is important,but you can't say that it will curb social ills in such a sweeping manner.""There are other factors involved," said the 36-year-old technician. He said men tended to stray for psychological reasons that he himself did not fully understand. Men, he said, could cheat on their wives despite having a happy marriage. Sociologist and social activist Rohanna Ariffin suggested that OWC members read up on statistics by women's rights group and the police to find out the factors that caused domestic violence.
"Women shouldn't be women's worst enemy. Husbands have to take responsibility for their own behaviour," said Rohanna who is also a Parti Rakyat Malaysia central committee member. She stressed that it was wrong for women to take all the blame for men's weaknesses. However, Selayang Umno deputy chief Datuk Nasir Ibrahim said the club was extraordinary and unique. He said Selayang Umno fully supported the club as most problems had their roots at home. "There may be negative voices decrying this as male chauvinism but I don't see it that way. If the family institution is strong with good marital relations, it can help counter social ills," he said at the launch of the club yesterday.
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