CONDITIONED Love ~ What the man contributes to you, he wants it back.......Return his love and his blessings ; Remind yourself of his EGO. Only GOD has Agapao (Agape) - UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. And you can give this to your children, Agape Love. (Only if he deserves it) =D

SUMMARY OF KEY POINTS :

According to your life, your duties have been prescribed for you; follow them and your desires will be naturally fulfilled. Many teachers preach that you must do what you love, then you will be very good at your job. This is only part of the story. Most people have not reached a clear state of realizing exactly what they love to do and what they are good at. These people need to go through a period of discovery. By simply being aware that there is a Divine plan for your life that waits to unfold in the course of life itself, you will begin to be consciously in tune with every incident that comes into your professional and personal life. Treat each incident with the eye of a good detective and try to unveil the mystery of your fate.

It is impossible to attain true spiritual perfection if you have avoided discovering the path by which you can contribute to society as an individual. Human beings' efforts to mold the outcome of given situations is nothing compared to what Heaven can do. When things don't turn out as expected, it might be a blessing in disguise. Understand the wisdom of the Dharma of acceptance and surrender. It is possible that self-effort, which incorporates human will, desire, and ability, is part of predestination, and this predestiny cannot unfold of its own accord. Therefore, predestiny and self-effort become two wheels of the same cart. BE TRUE TO YOUR LIFE, TRUE TO YOUR DESIRES. Some people say, " If God himself would just speak to me and let me know what He really wants me to do, I would be delighted to do that, no matter how meaningless and humble the work." In fact, God has spoken many times, but they weren't listening.

Sometimes people feel that whatever the work they are doing, it could not be what God intended for them. They blame the work. The missing piece here is not what is wrong with the work they are doing, but rather understanding the work they are performing right now in the context of the bigger picture of their destiny. The Dharma of an employee is to support the employer wholeheartedly. If you cannot support the company you work for, quit your job. You don't have the freedom to sabotage the company's morale and reputation through your constant expression and dissatisfaction. BY LIVING UNDER THE GRACE AND GUIDANCE OF DHARMA, LIFE ITSELF BECOMES THE ETERNAL WISH-FULFILLING TREE.